How To Choose The Right SIL Home For You
Finding a home that feels right is important.
Supported Independent Living (SIL) is about more than just having a place to stay.
It’s about feeling comfortable, safe, and supported in a way that makes sense for you.
The right SIL home should fit into your life, not the other way around. So, how do you find the one that works for you?
What Makes a SIL Home Feel Right?
A home is more than just a house - it’s where you can be yourself. The right SIL home should give you the balance of independence and support that fits your life.
Maybe you want a quiet space to unwind, or maybe you love being around others and having an active home life. Whatever feels right for you, your SIL home should reflect that.
Consider What’s Important to You
Choosing a home isn’t just about location or room size - it’s about how you feel when you’re there. Think about:
- Do you want to live with others, or do you prefer more personal space?
- How much support do you need each day?
- What kind of routines and lifestyle suit you best?
- Are you looking for a home that’s busy and social, or calm and quiet?
- Do you need access to therapy, day programs, or other community supports?
Everyone has different needs, and the right SIL home will fit what works for you.
Find The Right Level of Support
Support should help you live life your way - not take over. The best SIL homes offer the right balance, giving you help where you need it while respecting your independence.
Your support workers will listen to you, understand your routine, and be there when it matters.
Ask yourself:
- Do you want help with cooking, cleaning, or personal care?
- Would you like support with getting out and about?
- Do you need help with appointments or medication?
- How involved do you want your support workers to be?
Finding a home where staff respect your choices makes all the difference.
Be Supported in Living With Housemates
If you’re living in a shared home, feeling comfortable with the people around you is important.
Every household is different, and it might take time to find the right fit. Think about:
- Do you enjoy socialising, or do you need more quiet time?
- Would you prefer to live with people who share your interests?
- What kind of household routines make you feel comfortable?
Shared living isn’t always easy, but the right support can help make things work in a way that suits everyone.
The Location Matters - Be Close to What You Love
Where you live makes a big difference to your daily life.
The right SIL home should be in a location that works for you. Consider:
- Do you want to be close to family and friends?
- Would you like easy access to public transport?
- Are there community programs, shops, or medical services nearby?
- Do you feel more comfortable in a quiet area, or do you like being in the middle of everything?
A home in the right location makes life easier and more enjoyable.
Feel Safe and Comfortable
Everyone deserves to feel safe in their home.
The best SIL homes create an environment where you feel secure and supported, without feeling restricted. Your home should have:
- A setup that makes it easy to move around
- Support workers who respect your space
- Security measures that make you feel comfortable
- A calm, welcoming atmosphere
If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to keep looking. Feeling safe in your home is one of the most important things.
Have Flexibility As Your Needs Change
Life changes, and your support should change with you.
The right SIL home will adapt as your needs evolve, offering more support when you need it and giving you more space when you’re ready for independence. Ask about:
- Can support increase or decrease as needed?
- Are staff open to adjusting routines based on what works for you?
- Can you stay long-term, or will you need to move again if things change?
A home that grows with you is one that truly supports your future.
Check Out Different SIL Homes
Choosing the right home is a big decision, and it helps to see a few options before deciding.
When visiting a SIL home, take your time to:
- Meet the support workers and see how they interact with residents
- Spend time in the common areas to get a feel for the space
- Ask questions about daily routines and house rules
- Picture yourself living there - does it feel like somewhere you’d be happy?
It’s okay to take your time and ask as many questions as you need. The right home should feel like a good fit, not a rushed decision.
Family and Friends - Involved As Much or As Little As You’d Like
Your support network matters. If you want your family or friends to be part of your decision-making process, they can help you explore options and ask important questions.
Some homes also offer ways for family and friends to stay connected and involved in your support, but this should always be your choice.
Trust Your Instincts
At the end of the day, your home should feel right to you. Trust your instincts - if a home doesn’t feel like the right fit, it’s okay to keep looking.
A good SIL home should respect your choices, meet your needs, and help you feel at home.
When You’re Making the Move
Moving into a new home can feel exciting, but also a little overwhelming. The right SIL home will support you through the transition, making sure you feel comfortable every step of the way.
Whether it’s helping you settle in, introducing you to housemates, or setting up your space just how you like it, the process will feel smooth and supportive with your support workers.
Want to Find the Right SIL Home for You?
Finding the perfect home takes time, but you don’t have to do it alone. We’re here to help you explore your options and find a place that feels comfortable, supportive, and right for you.
Let’s talk about what you’re looking for and find a SIL home that truly feels like home.